Could lack of love be costly?!

Since we are born depending on our luck we may have received all the love we need Growing up. For example, any fruits and vegetables that are planted, Need the Proper care with a good soil, water and Sunshine; and as they Grow, the Care continues with they pest-control, to stay Healthy and Enjoyed by us When consumed. And we as Humans, not only need all the important care with proper Nutrition, Diet and Exercise of our mothers when Pregnant, but continual and consistent Love and Protection of our mothers, and adults around us growing up. By the time we are Adults, due to our Proper care & growth, NATURALLY, we will be adults Shining through with Love & healthy Attitudes that not only Shows, But Available for others to Enjoy and "Consume", by the Relationships they have with us.

In this Process, other Healthy adults who have had such HEALTHY Love & Care when growing up, will only Share who they ARE, In the Healthy-Relationships, when they come in contact with each-other. These Relationships could be in the Form of Friendships, Business relations, Romantic; etc. These Interactive processes could have a Multiple effect for having a Healthy-Society......

However, when we don't have such Healthy scenario growing up, then the problem arises Beginning with ourselves, in Relationships with others; whether Business, Friendship and Romantic as an Adult. Due to the Lack of Proper love and care we may have an unconscious Hunger for constantly Looking for Others who would give us "some" Emotional fulfillment. What we did not get with the Proper love & care growing up, now as an adult come through as some sort of Emotional hunger. This could be as bad as an example of a bucket with a whole, at its bottom, that no matter how much water you put in it, won't be enough to fill it up, due to the hole it has.

Unfortunately, if that is our problem, we not only would come in contact with the wrong people who will take advantage of us, with a little "pretended" love; but as soon as they get what they want, they will leave us COLD. These kind of Dysfunctional-Relationships will have a MULTIPLYING effect by creating other unneeded relationships. It will Drive us to go Towards and make us Volunteers, to Join, & Be in ENVIRONMENTS that are "created and Exists" with Such Addicted-Relations....... In such Relationships and Places, no matter how-much you get, and how-much you-give its Never enough........ It does not matter, whether its food; money; sex; work; etc......

These issues are beyond the Scope of this Blog, but it is Worth the Mention to guide us to Do something about them. That's what it takes not only for us to be a Better person, but to Help Others as well, by our Recovery process...... First, we can immediately make a point to Read and Educate ourselves about these Issues. Second, we can get ourselves checked-out by a Medical doctor to Ensure our Physical status; and then consider a Therapy consultation with a Therapist who could work with us to Heal our Emotional wounds. Third, we could have a Life-Coach & a Business consultant in place, to be as a Mentor or Guide in our TEAM, as we go Forward to having a Better Relationships in our LIVES.......

Remember, Living in a Healthy-Society, Starts with US. We must Build Our Better-Way, and a Place of BEING, One-Brick at a time and by What WE Have to Offer...... Individually, and by Better-Relationships that we Build with One-Another, we will HAVE a SOCIETY that'll ORCHESTRATE as we Want, in the PROCESS.......