In our society time and time again we come across emotionally charged situations that makes us confused again and again. For example, at work, there are so many complaints that I have heard from employees complaining about getting stuck in the Double-Bind. The complain is usually that they get into a profession that they LOVE, and they are also are asked that they should really love & care for what they do, but are hit hard by Emotional predicaments of Immoral and Unethical circumstances while working. They may be asked to do extra work doing unnecessary documentation; they may be pointed out performing many extra steps as that policies of the organization may require; other issues that may pressure them concerning their gender, age, religion, national origin; etc.
It seems that people are constantly in conflict of dealing with giving and doing what they LOVE, but being held-back with numerous demands that would constantly step on their feelings and confidence. But worst is that our professionals are not being Trained as to how to Encourage, Handle, Attend and Pay attention to such issues. Instead, our employers will do the "one-up-manship" practice that consists of usually brushing the issue under the carpet, only focusing on the task at hand, and/or suggesting that the employee should see a Worker's assistant program that gives employees therapy due to work-stress they have. Through these processes, employees may take advantage of getting psychological help due to work stress, but come back to work with similar issues, continuing, or may resign or get fired or laid off, but the emotional issues may only linger on somewhere else! So the Employer with such insensitive and unprofessional way of handling the emotional issues will continue to be the "stable-one" in the process!
Another example are in the areas of performing-arts department. There are many many Talented individuals who try so hard to develop their skills, but when it comes to performing or giving all they have got on STAGE, they come short of Energy and Enthusiasm due to NERVOUSNESS to control their stage, and capture their audience's attention. Many times again they may get the wrong message from their coaches that they should just "practice, practice, practice" instead of giving much attention to the Feelings. For example, I even heard in one of the Leadership programs that I participated, the coach was promoting that we should not pay attention to our Feelings if we want to succeed, and that feelings are just "farts"!
All throughout my career in the world of psychology, time and time again I realized that emotions and feelings has been identified and treated as some kind of a "disorder". There are are also many sensitive individuals and children who may be extra-sensitive to their senses and they may be psychic or clairvoyant and may need extra attention and sensitivity to deal with the obstacles they confront throughout their careers. Many times they may be identified as bi-polar; people with attention deficit problems; mood disorder, to name a few. It is important to be under the care of medical and psychological professionals, but it is also crucial to further work on these specific issues with a coach, for our bright personal an professional careers.
It is important to have a coach in this important field who not only work with people with such feelings and sensitive issues, but to assist in helping and training our employers and Leaders to work on themselves and others in handling such issues. In our Technological-Global SOCIETY, Moral and Ethical issues that is got to do with feelings and emotional sensitivity of people, has become more important than ever before. The misunderstanding of people have increased in this fast-pace SOCIETY more than ever before. we cannot just move forward without doing something constructive that would benefit us to be more mindful and respectful of one another, but to prevent any harmful effect that may arise along the way......
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Friday, December 21, 2012
Artificial-Intelligence or Universal-Intelligence PROGRAMING?!
When computer analysts and programmers are working on Artificial-Intelligence (A-I), they work on the technology computerized-computing in multidirectional and/or Dimensional way. However, the old-way of computing of computers have been in a linear fashion that would take a long time to complete, and needed fairly a lot of space as well. Now this is a very simple way of explaining this, but it will help you to understand in general, such technology that we have at hand. The reason that I got into this introduction is because we have been taught the same way to THINK and process in school growing up as well.
Linear thinking and doing things step-by-step has been the way of teachings in our schools and trainings, and the only people who have been exposed to the freedom of thinking have been mostly the Artists, Poets, and Designers and Spiritual people alike.
Even our laws become controversial when we try to abide by them in proper way at times. We have to have our cases heard in court due to the multidimensional or multianglar a situation has been happening that gets people into trouble, of breaking the laws that are written in a linear fashion in the books. Also within our Medical field, our Healing from diseases does not happen in a linear way either. Doctors would treat us with medication(s) and asks us to rest and take it easy until our body Heals itself On-Time, at any given Moment. The time that we are dealing with does not work linearly, but is a peace of the Worldly PUZZLE. Cells in our body, for example, does not recover linearly, but from all sides and dimensions, SIMULTANEOUSLY.
So how do we program our lives for the Better-Living: Healthy, Joyful, and Supportive LIVING.....?
Tuning our body to our UniversalConsciousness......
Offering our Consciousness to Universal-Consciousness (UC) will be the KEY of Focus, to get ourselves out of the linear and limiting LifeStyle. At such Moment, the UC will TakeOver to DRIVE our LIFE...
In this way, we will not only OPEN our Multi-Level CONSCIOUSNESS, but this Naturally programs us to go through the Portal of UC, so we will able to have the Simultaneous-Healing that allows us to Experience the Joy, Health, and Love that have been held back in OurLives for so long.....
Linear thinking and doing things step-by-step has been the way of teachings in our schools and trainings, and the only people who have been exposed to the freedom of thinking have been mostly the Artists, Poets, and Designers and Spiritual people alike.
Even our laws become controversial when we try to abide by them in proper way at times. We have to have our cases heard in court due to the multidimensional or multianglar a situation has been happening that gets people into trouble, of breaking the laws that are written in a linear fashion in the books. Also within our Medical field, our Healing from diseases does not happen in a linear way either. Doctors would treat us with medication(s) and asks us to rest and take it easy until our body Heals itself On-Time, at any given Moment. The time that we are dealing with does not work linearly, but is a peace of the Worldly PUZZLE. Cells in our body, for example, does not recover linearly, but from all sides and dimensions, SIMULTANEOUSLY.
So how do we program our lives for the Better-Living: Healthy, Joyful, and Supportive LIVING.....?
Tuning our body to our UniversalConsciousness......
Offering our Consciousness to Universal-Consciousness (UC) will be the KEY of Focus, to get ourselves out of the linear and limiting LifeStyle. At such Moment, the UC will TakeOver to DRIVE our LIFE...
In this way, we will not only OPEN our Multi-Level CONSCIOUSNESS, but this Naturally programs us to go through the Portal of UC, so we will able to have the Simultaneous-Healing that allows us to Experience the Joy, Health, and Love that have been held back in OurLives for so long.....
Would disrespect make us SICK or cause a Heart-Attack?!
Morality, and Ethical CONDUCT are all about Respect. In Business books they may be considered or mentioned as Win-Win. In Biblical stories you may come across the story of Jesus saying, "Love thy Neighbor as Yourself," or Don't do to them as you would to yourself....
Why this is Important? Because of the disharmony that the act of disrespect does, that Affects both persons Simultaneously! This is an InterActive process that will put both persons in jeopardy, and in a deeper level, would cause emotional-imbalance in the Expanded-Radius that may cause others discomfort as well. For example, in any Family situation, when you hear a husband and wife having any arguments and difficulties that they are struggling with, not only it makes the couple bothered by it, but their children and other immediate family members emotionally will get upset as well. Another example would be a conflict between an employee and a supervisor, or a supervisor and a manager. This conflict may not only cause upset between the two, but other employees may Feel the oddness that is going on in that Environment (no matter if they admit it or not).
Since we are Human-Beings, just like any other Living-Thing, we are Emotional-Beings and our "monitor" is our Hearts, that will let us know whether we are In-Harmony or not! Too long of ignorance to our Harmonious-well-being, and we may Face a Heart-Attack. We should be reminded that Cause & Effect goes together, and we may more like calling it Cause-Effect.
It is important again to be considerate of each other's Feelings due to, as the song goes, "Our Hearts Beats As ONE" may be really True. I heard also of an experiment that was done some time ago that proved all the Clocks that were in a room, after a while, started Becoming synchronized as well.
So what does Moral values and Ethical standard are trying to emphasis on? RESPECT. In our culture unfortunately, Science has been putting so much emphasis on the "cold" mathematical and evidential concepts that the Subjective-Phenomenon has been rated down. For example, all we may hear now with the Genetic studies, is that scientists and medical doctors are explaining away all misbehavior and diseases as a "genetic-link" problem. This may totally disregard the Musical aspect of our UNIVERSE, that our Humanity depends on.
In order to Start this Harmonious-Process, I suggest for us to Educate ourselves and work on our Emotional-Intelligence that will not only make us Healthier and Happier, but will make our Human-Environment more LIVABLE as well......
Why this is Important? Because of the disharmony that the act of disrespect does, that Affects both persons Simultaneously! This is an InterActive process that will put both persons in jeopardy, and in a deeper level, would cause emotional-imbalance in the Expanded-Radius that may cause others discomfort as well. For example, in any Family situation, when you hear a husband and wife having any arguments and difficulties that they are struggling with, not only it makes the couple bothered by it, but their children and other immediate family members emotionally will get upset as well. Another example would be a conflict between an employee and a supervisor, or a supervisor and a manager. This conflict may not only cause upset between the two, but other employees may Feel the oddness that is going on in that Environment (no matter if they admit it or not).
Since we are Human-Beings, just like any other Living-Thing, we are Emotional-Beings and our "monitor" is our Hearts, that will let us know whether we are In-Harmony or not! Too long of ignorance to our Harmonious-well-being, and we may Face a Heart-Attack. We should be reminded that Cause & Effect goes together, and we may more like calling it Cause-Effect.
It is important again to be considerate of each other's Feelings due to, as the song goes, "Our Hearts Beats As ONE" may be really True. I heard also of an experiment that was done some time ago that proved all the Clocks that were in a room, after a while, started Becoming synchronized as well.
So what does Moral values and Ethical standard are trying to emphasis on? RESPECT. In our culture unfortunately, Science has been putting so much emphasis on the "cold" mathematical and evidential concepts that the Subjective-Phenomenon has been rated down. For example, all we may hear now with the Genetic studies, is that scientists and medical doctors are explaining away all misbehavior and diseases as a "genetic-link" problem. This may totally disregard the Musical aspect of our UNIVERSE, that our Humanity depends on.
In order to Start this Harmonious-Process, I suggest for us to Educate ourselves and work on our Emotional-Intelligence that will not only make us Healthier and Happier, but will make our Human-Environment more LIVABLE as well......
Is it me or the Frequency?!
We wonder why we get our diseases and allergies; psychologically, why we get our stresses and behavioral issues; why we get migraines and pains....
People take medications and vitamins, also diet regiments also has been good to work as a preventative medicine. However, another issue that usually does not get discussed by doctors and therapists and psychiatrists is the subject of unbalanced Frequencies that one can have problems with. The reason that doctors and therapists and other Heath professionals does not discuss such issue is due to first, their License does not cover such parameters; and second, scientifically is not something to be detected and monitored with patients.
This subject deems to be very controversial, but worth getting into as a remedy for individuals to use for getting better. However this subject is very extensive to discuses and also very subjective to understand; as the result one can only try and use these discussed concepts to only share their results with others. So briefly I will touch on this Remedy and encourage any inquiry for further discussion to help the process of such understanding.
We are like Frequencies across the UNIVERSE. All our molecules and atoms in our body, collectively as a body, like a Radio produces or sends, and Simultaneously receives information, as Frequency CONSTANTLY. Like a Radio our body (again COLLECTIVELY) has to be in a Right-Frequency to work in HARMONY. Now if we get out of Harmony or Balance, just like a radio, our body will not only send, but will receive uninterrupted annoying Frequency that our body not only Vibrates on, but would Annoy others who will Listen to it. Mind that we do not only listen with our ears, but all our senses are INVOLVED! For example, Visual; Taste; Touch; Smell; and Hearing. And if just like a radio, our station (our Body), is not on the Right-Station it will sound like we are not Tuned-In, and that causes us to be in disharmony with our Environment. This disharmony may leave some DisEase that not only harms us, but may harms others as well.
So what could we do about such predicament? How can we even prevent such disharmony from happening..... Well, just like an instrument, for example, a Guitar, or Violin or Piano, we can try to TUNE our body, to sound "Tuned", so we could expected to play the Music that we want!
A couple of the suggestions that I could make here, in this brief discussion is doing Yoga. Another is Tai-Chi. And if you need a Tuning by a Professional, you could try Hypnosis as well (which allows you to learn to do Self-Hypnosis, correctly, on your own, later on). I suggest that you also consider doing Meditation as well that would include Chanting and
Focused-Breathing. Repetition and Practicing these Exercises on Daily bases if you can, will get you to feel Better as you go forward with your Healthy LifeStyle......
People take medications and vitamins, also diet regiments also has been good to work as a preventative medicine. However, another issue that usually does not get discussed by doctors and therapists and psychiatrists is the subject of unbalanced Frequencies that one can have problems with. The reason that doctors and therapists and other Heath professionals does not discuss such issue is due to first, their License does not cover such parameters; and second, scientifically is not something to be detected and monitored with patients.
This subject deems to be very controversial, but worth getting into as a remedy for individuals to use for getting better. However this subject is very extensive to discuses and also very subjective to understand; as the result one can only try and use these discussed concepts to only share their results with others. So briefly I will touch on this Remedy and encourage any inquiry for further discussion to help the process of such understanding.
We are like Frequencies across the UNIVERSE. All our molecules and atoms in our body, collectively as a body, like a Radio produces or sends, and Simultaneously receives information, as Frequency CONSTANTLY. Like a Radio our body (again COLLECTIVELY) has to be in a Right-Frequency to work in HARMONY. Now if we get out of Harmony or Balance, just like a radio, our body will not only send, but will receive uninterrupted annoying Frequency that our body not only Vibrates on, but would Annoy others who will Listen to it. Mind that we do not only listen with our ears, but all our senses are INVOLVED! For example, Visual; Taste; Touch; Smell; and Hearing. And if just like a radio, our station (our Body), is not on the Right-Station it will sound like we are not Tuned-In, and that causes us to be in disharmony with our Environment. This disharmony may leave some DisEase that not only harms us, but may harms others as well.
So what could we do about such predicament? How can we even prevent such disharmony from happening..... Well, just like an instrument, for example, a Guitar, or Violin or Piano, we can try to TUNE our body, to sound "Tuned", so we could expected to play the Music that we want!
A couple of the suggestions that I could make here, in this brief discussion is doing Yoga. Another is Tai-Chi. And if you need a Tuning by a Professional, you could try Hypnosis as well (which allows you to learn to do Self-Hypnosis, correctly, on your own, later on). I suggest that you also consider doing Meditation as well that would include Chanting and
Focused-Breathing. Repetition and Practicing these Exercises on Daily bases if you can, will get you to feel Better as you go forward with your Healthy LifeStyle......
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Are the daily commercials reminding or teaching us Something?!
In this global consumer-society we are exposed to daily commercials every few minutes....
Have you ever wondered how these constant exposures to commercials have made you feel and think?
People may sometimes complain about what is happening around the world by listening to the news; unfair treatments at places of work, and their relationships with others. We may sometimes complain about our education system needing improvement. But look at what we are exposed to on daily basis. Does the commercials on radio and tv, Internet and news; etc, are teaching or reminding us to be Moral, Responsible, Ethical or anything near these things? Or are these commercials are daring us or secretly encouraging us to be silly and not mind what others think or feel, wanting us to buy something to make us happy and forget about what is going on around us. These egoic acts being advertised and encouraged on daily basis only puts forth the idea of being young is to be selfish, only care about yourself or buy love by giving some one a gift, and showing off to others that what you drive or wear would make everything alright!
We can only expect to have a Moral and Ethical and Respectably Honorable Society by living in the Environment that encourages these Behaviors on constant basis. Even our educated people may fall into these traps of silliness by these environmental-misprogramming.
We can not only hope and wish these things would change, but each one of us can take an individual responsibility NOW, to do and put forth something, that could gradually Alter these silliness in a productive and positive way for all of us, and especially for our youth.
Have you ever wondered how these constant exposures to commercials have made you feel and think?
People may sometimes complain about what is happening around the world by listening to the news; unfair treatments at places of work, and their relationships with others. We may sometimes complain about our education system needing improvement. But look at what we are exposed to on daily basis. Does the commercials on radio and tv, Internet and news; etc, are teaching or reminding us to be Moral, Responsible, Ethical or anything near these things? Or are these commercials are daring us or secretly encouraging us to be silly and not mind what others think or feel, wanting us to buy something to make us happy and forget about what is going on around us. These egoic acts being advertised and encouraged on daily basis only puts forth the idea of being young is to be selfish, only care about yourself or buy love by giving some one a gift, and showing off to others that what you drive or wear would make everything alright!
We can only expect to have a Moral and Ethical and Respectably Honorable Society by living in the Environment that encourages these Behaviors on constant basis. Even our educated people may fall into these traps of silliness by these environmental-misprogramming.
We can not only hope and wish these things would change, but each one of us can take an individual responsibility NOW, to do and put forth something, that could gradually Alter these silliness in a productive and positive way for all of us, and especially for our youth.
Friday, December 14, 2012
Are we teaching our Youth Sympathy or Empathy, or Both?
We may get exposed to the idea of Empathy through what it says in some religions that we must love our neighbor as ourselves, Empathy may be a life-time practice. Scientists in psychology may have done experiments and may have explained what empathy is, but true Empathy is at a deeper level than sympathy.
We may teach our children to say "I am sorry" if they have done something inappropriate or wrong, but they may grow up to go through life not feeling what others maybe going through by inappropriateness of our children's words, actions or attitudes...
Especially, in this Global-World people may READILY hurt one-another, just by inappropriate words that gets transmitted through a text on a phone, or Internet, and postings of a inappropriate picture or Video. The social media has detached people more and more from each other and reduced individuals reacting to one-another while they are behind their devices. Empathy takes TIME to develop as the result of individuals spending time with one-another to, be able to feel the feelings of each other. On the other hand, sympathy may be as quick as saying to someone "sorry" and move on!
We may examine that in this consumer-mentality society that we live in, are we creating products and tools that benefits OneAnother or one-better-than-the other? And we cannot teach others everything just by transmitting concepts and rules when it comes to these issues, but spending TIME for us to become AWARE what Empathy feels-like.....
We may teach our children to say "I am sorry" if they have done something inappropriate or wrong, but they may grow up to go through life not feeling what others maybe going through by inappropriateness of our children's words, actions or attitudes...
Especially, in this Global-World people may READILY hurt one-another, just by inappropriate words that gets transmitted through a text on a phone, or Internet, and postings of a inappropriate picture or Video. The social media has detached people more and more from each other and reduced individuals reacting to one-another while they are behind their devices. Empathy takes TIME to develop as the result of individuals spending time with one-another to, be able to feel the feelings of each other. On the other hand, sympathy may be as quick as saying to someone "sorry" and move on!
We may examine that in this consumer-mentality society that we live in, are we creating products and tools that benefits OneAnother or one-better-than-the other? And we cannot teach others everything just by transmitting concepts and rules when it comes to these issues, but spending TIME for us to become AWARE what Empathy feels-like.....
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Our idols are not worth a penny any longer!
In our Global- Society that we live in now with all the technological advancement that have been made have brought down the worth of things almost down to nothing. For example, it is not what you pay for if you are buying a TV, Raidio, phone, but the monthly payments that would buy you many of these items many times over throughout the year.
You have a home, a car; you want to travel, invest on gold, antiques and arts; or you want to buy a computer; who is your American idol that you listen to on the media; where do you park your car when you go places; how many times you buy a new stuff because a better item has came up in the store and internet that you could use, better than the one you bought yesterday or last year......
How about books that you read or news that you watch, every day a new event, a new "how to" information in a book or program. A new game on the computer, a new application, a new update, a new virus......Our spiritual advisors, our laws and lawyers; our education system with its regurgitating methods of teaching and rising tuitions that students cannot catchup with to pay off. Jobs that are temporary on daily basis......
Our average salaries cannot suffice paying off the demands of the raising costs of products and food and constant changes that are being made that demands us to buy, to keep up with such new way of living, before we get outdated. It does not worth saving money any longer, due to almost no interest that are being given to the customers of the banks. You may think at times that it may cost more to save your money, than spending your money with such rates of inflation that are effecting the world in such Global-Economy we live now.
You have a home, a car; you want to travel, invest on gold, antiques and arts; or you want to buy a computer; who is your American idol that you listen to on the media; where do you park your car when you go places; how many times you buy a new stuff because a better item has came up in the store and internet that you could use, better than the one you bought yesterday or last year......
How about books that you read or news that you watch, every day a new event, a new "how to" information in a book or program. A new game on the computer, a new application, a new update, a new virus......Our spiritual advisors, our laws and lawyers; our education system with its regurgitating methods of teaching and rising tuitions that students cannot catchup with to pay off. Jobs that are temporary on daily basis......
Our average salaries cannot suffice paying off the demands of the raising costs of products and food and constant changes that are being made that demands us to buy, to keep up with such new way of living, before we get outdated. It does not worth saving money any longer, due to almost no interest that are being given to the customers of the banks. You may think at times that it may cost more to save your money, than spending your money with such rates of inflation that are effecting the world in such Global-Economy we live now.
Monday, December 10, 2012
Multicultural or Transcultural ?
In America we say we are a multicultural society, due to many people who have migrated to America for business; and/or political reasons. Some have came here because part of their family was here, or got married....
Now after many years with the speed of advanced technologies and opportunities that have allowed many to communicate; travel and move around and live in different parts of the world, and may times for shorter amount of time has made a different Global-Community. All these readily communications, transactions, travels and transfers has made a NEW generation of Global-Community that is NOW.......Transcultural.
The offsprings of our Multicultural-Community in this Global-World, has turned OUR society across the continents into something more Expansive and Dynamic PEOPLE. And at this time in History, HUMANITY..... became a Global-Human, who cannot escape ITSELF, as we cannot be no longer judgmental or prejudice towards OURSEVES!
"YOU ARE LOOKING INTO THE MIRROR........"
Now after many years with the speed of advanced technologies and opportunities that have allowed many to communicate; travel and move around and live in different parts of the world, and may times for shorter amount of time has made a different Global-Community. All these readily communications, transactions, travels and transfers has made a NEW generation of Global-Community that is NOW.......Transcultural.
The offsprings of our Multicultural-Community in this Global-World, has turned OUR society across the continents into something more Expansive and Dynamic PEOPLE. And at this time in History, HUMANITY..... became a Global-Human, who cannot escape ITSELF, as we cannot be no longer judgmental or prejudice towards OURSEVES!
"YOU ARE LOOKING INTO THE MIRROR........"
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